Ever since I first saw
this spread from the Summer 2006 issue of Martha Stewart Weddings, I have been in love with the idea of a picnic wedding. You can
dress it up or keep it casual, and either way, it's an unexpected idea for a wedding reception. If you love the idea but want a more formal, traditional wedding, this can work just as well for a rehearsal lunch. You can easily spend a chunk of money on picnic food, but you don't have to. I mean...
Who says...a meal can't cost under $20 per person?
Mood: playful, casual
Palette: yellow, red, white
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Top row from left: yellow cardigan photo via
Brooklyn Bride, letter-style invitation from
Martha Stewart Weddings, bench photo from
flickr, bowl of berries and chamomile from
La Tartine GourmandeRow 2: lunch boxes via
Lucky Me!, ring pillow photo by
The Studio Nouveau, cherry lemonade from
Martha Stewart, flying a kite
Row 3: shoes from
Zappos, wheelbarrow cooler photo by
Heather Forsythe, picnic blankets photo by
Liz Banfield, chamomile from
Martha Stewart WeddingsRow 4: yellow ceremony program photo via
{frolic!}, cakes photo by
Jessamyn Harris, bouquet from
Brides, sign photo by
White Box WeddingsThe Paper: Set the tone for a playful, casual wedding with an invitation meant to look like a hand-written note. Either use your own handwriting, or employ someone with handwriting you like to do it for you, then have it printed and mail it out in a colorful envelope. Simple ceremony programs are trimmed with
pinking scissors and tied with
ric-rac to give them a fun touch.
The Fashion: Buy a simple dress and embellish it yourself, with appliques, pleating, ribbon, or even
tulle flowers. Accessorize with a vintage cardigan and simple jewelry. Zappos is a great resource for shoes - this pair of
cute yellow flats is only $60 - and they offer not only free shipping on orders, but also free shipping on returns.
The Decor: Holding your wedding in a public park (or anywhere that is already attractive on its own) is a great way to save on decorations, and can be a cheaper venue than many others. Check out local public parks as well as state parks in your area.
Paper lanterns or crepe paper streamers hung in trees are a cost-effective way to add some color to your venue.
The Flowers: If your guests are eating at picnic tables, decorate with simple arrangements of
chamomile flowers or small bowls of summer fruit (check
IKEA for bowls under $1), which are both pretty and edible. For your bouquet, mix pricier flowers, like garden roses, with cheaper ones and tie it with a pretty eyelet ribbon.
The Food: Serve picnic lunches in
gable boxes or even simple brown bags for as little as $10 per person (you can make them yourself, or ask a local cafe or deli about their boxed lunches). Ask your friends and family members to contribute homemade desserts for a dessert buffet - you can even have bags for guests to take extra cookies home. A wheelbarrow makes for a clever cooler for drinks, and a large jar is a pretty way to serve punch.
Other Details: Save on a DJ or band, by having fun activities for your guests instead of dancing. Ask them to bring kites and set up a game of horseshoes or badminton. If you have a knack for sewing, you can make your own picnic blankets, or you can do what my mother used to do for school auctions: buy
moving blankets for $6 apiece and paint large floral designs all over them with acrylic or fabric paint. Not only will they provide your guests with a place to sit, but they make for great favors.
Splurges: Rent a
photobooth! The photos are fun keepsakes for you and your guests, and some companies have a flat rate with as many photos as your guests can take. Or, you can set up your own photobooth with a
backdrop of interesting fabric and a
Polaroid camera.
For Free: At my cousin's wedding this summer, when the officiant asked "Who gives this woman/man?" the entire bride's side and groom's side responded with "We do!" respectively. What a fun way to include your loved ones! You can let your guests know their line at the front of the program.
Real Wedding Inspiration: Michelle & Noah, via
A Practical Wedding and The Bride's Cafe part
one and
two; Amanda & Eddie via
A Practical WeddingLabels: Budget Friendly Ideas, Inspiration Boards, picnic, red, yellow