Choosing an unusual venue, one that people might not immediately think of when planning a wedding, may or may not be cheaper than your typical banquet hall, but you might be inspired to think outside the box when it comes to the rest of the details. And thinking outside the box is key to planning a wedding on a budget! I made this wedding board with an art gallery venue in mind, but there are all kinds of places to rent out that aren't your usual hotel ballroom. Museums, theaters, farms... While your guests might forget all of the tiny details, they'll certainly remember a unique and visually interesting venue.
Who says...your reception has to be in a ballroom or banquet hall?
Mood: cleverly modern
Palette: white, lavender, gray
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Top row from left: balloon centerpieces via
Brooklyn Bride, frozen vodka "bucket" by
Michaele Thunen, stitched invitations by
Bird & Banner, vintage veil photo by
Ron WurzerRow 2: jars of buttons via
Dreamhouse, picture frame photobooth by
Front Room Photography via
Bespoke, art gallery
Row 3: lobster summer rolls from
Brides, dress from
J.Crew, bouquet via
Thoughtful Day, pocket square from
Martha Stewart WeddingsRow 4: cake photo by
Sugar Love, crayon favor from
Maria McBride, stamped escort cards photo by
Amy Squires, earrings by
One Small Star via
HandcraftedThe Paper: It is always cheaper to print in one color than two (or four), but borrow a tip from the talented ladies at
Bird & Banner, and stitch a line of colorful thread across the top of your invites for a little something extra. For your seating cards, sit down in front of a movie and stamp away, using
rubber stamps to spell out your guests' first names. If you feel really ambitious, stamp one letter in color (maybe just the letter "R" or something like that).
The Fashion: J.Crew is a great place to find some pretty wedding dresses for reasonable prices -
this one for $895 has some darling detailing at the bust. Accessorize with a
vintage veil and these
sweet pearl earrings from One Small Star for only $30 (they'd also make great bridesmaid gifts). For the groom, how about a pocket square in one of your colors in lieu of a boutonniere? You can find them for as little as $5 at department stores, and there are
several ways you can fold them.
The Decor: Large round balloons are a great way to make a visual impact for about 25-cents apiece, and
hang numbered tags from the strings as clever table numbers. Large jars full of buttons (or other simple objects like stones, sand, small plastic toys...) are an interesting decoration that doesn't have to cost a lot. For something pretty at the bar,
make an ice bucket and freeze branches, flowers, herbs or sliced fruit in the ice.
The Flowers: Eschew flowers except for the bouquets. Splurge on your own - mix purple clematis with dusty miller and lamb ears to fit with this color palette - and keep the bridesmaid bouquets a bit smaller and simpler.
The Food: To save, use more expensive ingredients in hors d'oeuvres rather than in entrees, like the lobster in these summer rolls (an interesting
note about lobster here). If you want to offer guests more than just a signature cocktail, but less than a full bar, buy vodka in bulk:
according to Peter Callahan, vodka is the most popular item at the bar. He also says that "as long as you’ve prearranged it with your supplier, you can return [extra, unopened bottles], and there’s nothing cheesy about that." For your cake, order one that is incredibly simple, and decorate it yourself with a
fun topper, fondant letters, or a
stencil.
Other Details: For an art gallery reception, why not let your guests get a little creative? Cover the tables with white butcher paper, and place a bundle of crayons at each seat for guests to doodle. The crayons can even double as a favor. Another fun idea is to set up a photobooth area for guests with a large empty frame in it.
Splurges: If the groom has reason to wear a suit again, splurge on a nice one. A well-fitted suit will always be in style, and can even be worn as separates after the wedding (for example, pair the jacket with jeans for a night out).
For Free: Get your friends and family involved. Ask someone with a musical talent to play during the ceremony, or have your great-aunt bake her famous lemon bars, or see if your friend with a sewing machine won't make the flower girl's dress or ring pillow. The people who love you probably have more varied talents than you might know.
Real Wedding Inspiration: Naomi & Mike via
Little White BookLabels: Budget Friendly Ideas, gray, Inspiration Boards, modern, purple, white